Secrets to a LONG, Happy Marriage

Secrets to a LONG, Happy Marriage

Follow These Tips for a Long, Happy Marriage

Wait no longer Detroit Area Brides! Here are the Tweets we promised last Thursday from Herbert and Zylmyra Fisher, the world’s longest married couple at 85 years and counting. Read to learn about a long, happy marriage. Pretty powerful stuff!

Question 1: What made you realize that you could spend the rest of your lives together? Were you scared at all?
Answer: With each day that passed, our relationship was more solid and secure. Divorce was NEVER an option – or even a thought.

Question 2: How did you know your spouse was the right one?
Answer: We grew up together & were best friends before we married. A friend is for life, our long, happy marriage has lasted a lifetime.

Question 3: Is there anything you would do differently after more than 80 years of marriage?
Answer: We wouldn’t change a thing. There’s no secret to our long, happy marriage, we just did what was needed for each other and our family.

Question 4: What is your advice to someone who is trying to keep the faith that Mr. Right is really out there?
Answer from Zelmyra: Mine was just around the corner! He is never too far away, so keep the faith – when you meet him, you’ll know.

Question 5: What was the best piece of marriage advice you ever received?
Answer: Respect, support and communication with each other. Be faithful, honest, and true. Love each other with ALL of your heart.

Question 6: What are the most important attributes of a good spouse?
Answer: A hard worker and good provider. The 1920s were hard, but Herbert wanted and provided the best for us. I married a good man!

Question 7: What is your best Valentines Day memory?
Answer from Zelmyra: I cook dinner EVERY day. Herbert left work early and surprised me- he cooked dinner for me! He is a VERY good cook!
Answer from Herbert: I said that I was going to cook dinner for her and she could relax – the look on her face and the clean plate made my day!

Question 8: You got married very young – how did you both manage to grow as individuals yet not grow apart as a couple?
Answer: “Everyone who plants a seed and harvests the crop celebrates together” We are individuals, but accomplish more together.

Question 9: What is your fondest memory of your 85- year marriage?
Answer: Our legacy: 5 children, 10 grandchildren, 9 great-grandchildren, and 1 great-great-grandchild.

Question 10: Does communication get easier with time? How do you keep your patience?
Answer: The children are grown, so we talk more now. We can enjoy our time on the porch or our rocking chairs – together.

Question 11: How did you cope when you had to be physically separated for long periods of time?
Answer from Herbert: We were apart for 2 months when Zelmyra was hospitalized with our 5th child. It was the most difficult time of my life. Zelmyra’s mother helped me with the house and the other children; otherwise I would have lost my mind.

Question 12: At the end of a bad relationship day, what is the most important thing to remind yourselves?
Answer: Remember marriage is not a contest – never keep score. God has put the two of you together on the same team to win.

Question 13: Is fighting important?
Answer: NEVER physically! Agree that it’s okay to disagree, and fight for what really matters. Learn to bend – not break!

Question 14: What’s the one thing you have in common that transcends everything else?
Answer: We are both Christians and believe in God. Marriage is a commitment to the Lord. We pray with and for each other every day.

Those last ones are the kickers! I agree 100%! I stick to the same principles everyday with my wife and I can only hope – or should I say ‘pray’ – that one day I can be in Herbert and Zylmyra’s place.

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